Conduit July 13- Naked And Unashamed

Exodus 20:14 Don’t commit Adultery.

When Jesus started talking about marriage he said these words that are recorded in Mark 10:5″It was because your hearts were hard that Moses wrote you this law,” Jesus replied. 6″But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.'[a] 7’For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife,[b] 8and the two will become one flesh.'[c] So they are no longer two, but one. 9Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.”

Interesting choice of words; “for this reason”.  What reason?  Maybe it was because of their hard hearts.  In Matthew 5 Jesus says that if I look upon a woman and lust that I have already committed adultery in MY HEART.  (emphasis mine) It’s a heart issue.  Adultery is just a symptom of a sickness in my heart.  Just because I haven’t shown symptoms doesn’t mean I’m not a carrier.

He goes on to say that in the beginning this was how it was meant to be; one man one woman.  And when I look back at the Genesis account I see that they were “naked and unashamed”. (Gen 2:25)  They were together.   After Adam and Eve had been together for the first time, it says that God called their name “Adam”.   (Gen 5:2)

From Song of Solomon to Hosea to Revelation, God would over and again use the picture of husband and wife as the picture for His relationship to us.  (It stands to reason why there will be no more marriage in Heaven since the picture will no longer be needed.)

When all is right in a marriage, those moments of intimacy is as close we can come to on this side of heaven to understanding the picture of our relationship with God.  With that in mind we see why it is that God would ask so much of us in marriage and why the enemy would attack it so fiercely.  It’s the very picture of God and us.  Tearing it apart damages the picture.

As an aside; It’s easy for us to sit and throw rocks at those we think have it all wrong, specifically in terms of sex.  We go to Romans 1 and can dish out some serious theological rocks and declare them as “fools”.  (Matt 5:22   If you missed last weeks teaching feel free to download it and see why Jesus equated that with murder)

What we skip is that Romans 2 Paul goes on to say that we shouldn’t be passing judgment.  It’s not that what we’re seeing is or isn’t sin, but he says that in passing judgment we’re doing God’s job.  I guess in short, He doesn’t need Holy Ghost Junior.  If you want a good look at what Romans 2 is talking about, go to

In John 8 it’s recounted that there was a woman caught in the act of adultery that had been brought to Jesus.     They didn’t bring the man along so we know that they weren’t really interested in the law as much as they were trapping Jesus in his own words. (Deut 22 and Ex 22 both say that BOTH should be killed)

If He said let her go, it would’ve been fodder for their fire as Jesus being a law breaker.   By the same token saying to stone her would undo the message of grace He was bringing.   Of course Jesus did neither.    He said, let “he who is without sin, cast the first stone.”

You know the story. He bent down and wrote on the ground. The very finger of God that wrote the 10 commandments, bent down to write again.   It’s not recorded what exactly He wrote, but what we know is this.   One by one, from oldest to youngest, they all left.  Of course we don’t know, but I kind of wonder if he was writing down the names of each individual there and right alongside of the name, the sin they were guilty of.

He looked to the woman and said, “woman where are your accusers?”  She said that they had all gone.  Every last one of them.   And here was this woman, who was no doubt naked since she was caught in the very act of adultery standing there.

It’s not lost on me that she was standing there as it was in the beginning.  She stood there naked, and maybe for the first time in her life: Unashamed.

There is much more to discuss.  There isn’t one of us whose lives have not been affected or indirectly affected by adultery.   There is so much hurt, destruction, and grief.   There is also restoration.  We’ll talk about all of that.

Monday night at 730pm.  Hope to see you there.



1.   Don’t forget you can feed a child for a month in Haiti for $15.  so easy.  just click on and you can donate online.   Just skip Star Bucks for a couple weeks and you’ve got a kid covered for the month.

2.   Pray about sponsoring one of our kids in Haiti full time.  It’s $32 a month to feed, clothe, educate and shower a child with the Love of Jesus.  You can do this at as well.

3.   We had another lemonAID stand in Dallas, TX this week.  special thanks to our friend Michael Slaughter and the people at Nations Church.  If you’re planning on doing the lemonAID stand this summer let me know so we can report back.


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